Freddy Jr. (aka “husband” / aka “dad”) has been unanimously voted the family MVP today. The votes were cast after reviewing the past three weeks of family events, culminating with today’s impromptu nap with the kids. This act allowed Freddy’s wife to nap by herself without interruption and ultimately sealed the vote.
Let’s hear what he has to say about his new title!
M: How does it feel to be the family MVP?
F: It feels pretty good. Did I go above and beyond today? I mean, yeah… I did. But mostly I just answered the call of duty.
M: Having a newborn and an almost 5-year-old who needs a lot of attention is a lot to manage alongside a full-time job and your wife’s changing emotional state. What keeps you going?
F: Umm…this is intense. [Pause]
A few months ago I challenged myself to write out my personal mission statement. It has given me so much guidance and personal accountability in my work life and personal life. Ultimately in this season of life, I’m striving to be a balanced man. At the end of the day, I just want to be a good husband, dad, and employee. And I have a lot of people counting on me.
M: How do you feel this newborn phase is going compared to your first time around?
F: So much more chaotic… Freddy is an absolute gem! He is so calm, content, and happy which makes it very easy to take care of him. However, the pure nature of having two children just makes it feel like everything is in the air at all times.
Freddy III is heard tooting in the background. Freddy Jr. pauses and cracks a smile. The girls start laughing.
At this point, the interview is paused. Freddy III needs to be changed. Freddy Jr. leaves to change him.
When he returns, dinner needs to be cleared, one child needs to start her bedtime routine and the other needs to eat again. His daughter Emma ignores all requests to get ready for bed, instead choosing to practice triple axel jumps in the kitchen.
Soon the whole family is gathered in the baby’s room. Freddy Jr. is teaching Emma how to do cartwheels while his wife feeds the baby.
Daddy and daughter leave to brush their teeth. Although she has managed triple axels and cartwheels without injury, something occurs with Emma on the walk across the hall. Crying can be heard.
The interview resumes 58 minutes later.
M: The timing of those interruptions felt staged. That’s what you meant by everything is in the air, isn’t it?
F: Yes, precisely.
M: If you could choose one thing to change about this phase, what would it be?
F: The time of year… More fresh air would be a “breath of fresh air”. [I] can’t wait for spring!
M: How about your favorite part of this phase?
F: I have an appreciation for how quickly everything else in life can just slow down. Having a newborn in the house has a way of shifting priorities. I no longer have time to sneak out for a quick bonfire, walk the dog, or even keep my driveway perfectly clear of snow. Just the basics.
M: That’s your favorite part about this phase?
F: Huh? What was the question?
M: What is your favorite part about this phase?
F: Hm, I must’ve gone off on a tangent. My favorite part is smelling my son’s head! Duh!
M: Thanks for taking the time today. Wanna watch an ep[isode]?